When I was a boy, I was told not to cry, Because I was taught, "Boys don’t cry." I learned to control my emotions, Never letting my tears flow down my cheeks. As a teen, I faced intrusive thoughts That held me back in my studies. I was teased and bullied by schoolmates, While teachers discriminated and insulted me for my marks. Each word and action Carved a scar deep in my heart. When I became a young adult, I felt the ache, the tender sting, In quiet places where changes cling. I woke at night, my sheets turned cold, A mystery unraveled, still untold. I felt the throb, the unfamiliar strain, A silent turmoil, a nameless pain. I walked this path, unknown and bare, Through fleeting shame and courage rare. I faced the nights and dreams that fell, Through aches and growth, I stood well. For in this pain, a truth I’d see— The boy I was, becoming me. I graduated, Relished my academic years, Fulfilling half my dreams— No
Most of 90% of young people have a thinking like this. When we fail or if we doesn't achieve something in our life. We give up and remove that wish from our mind. Also there are some boys and girls who has gone to commit suicide when they failed in exams or couldn't achieve something. Recently, there were many shocking and horrible news in social media. This thinking is creating problems in our life and making harassment in your mind. First upon, we should know that there is no such theory that one you failed , then we are not going to achieve anything or can't succeed in your life. If we have a target or we have a wish that we want to achieve something, we might get failed many times. But what we should do, is not to give up and just step forward. We should use all the challenges and chances what we get.
If we take many great personalities such Albert Einstien, Graham Bell, APJ Abdul Kalam, they also faced failure many times. But all of them had a target, a wish to achieve something and to do something in their life.
We all should know that behind every great and famous persons there is a stories of failures, pains, affliction and disappointment. Failure is the beginning of every success. But, if you want to achieve something in your life one of the most important thing in your life" is to be yourself", and always choose a right and correct path in your life. There might be many incidents in which you can go into a wrong path, but you should control yourself and defend it. We should not allow any problems and obstacles to defeat us.
Remove all the burdens in your minds, whether it's mental, emotional or worrying about the future. We don't have time waste, and we should not leave any chances what we get, we should take it as a challenge and go through it.
There is a line in the autobiography book of Dr APJ Abdul Kalam's "The Wings of Fire", in which his high school teacher used to say him and his classmates that:- "To succeed in life and to achieve results, you must understand and master three mighty forces- desire, belief and expectations. So always remember and apply these three forces.
There is an another taught of Abdul Kalam, he says if you fail, never give up, because FAIL means, First Attempt in Learning.
We should know that big minds are born of biggest failures, and without pain, nothing great happens. So, see your goals, understand the obstacles, create a positive mental picture, clear your mind of self doubt, embrace the challenge, stay on the right path and show the world that you can do it.
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