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The Boy I Was, The Man I Am

                                                              When I was a boy, I was told not to cry, Because I was taught, "Boys don’t cry." I learned to control my emotions, Never letting my tears flow down my cheeks. As a teen, I faced intrusive thoughts That held me back in my studies. I was teased and bullied by schoolmates, While teachers discriminated and insulted me for my marks. Each word and action Carved a scar deep in my heart. When I became a young adult, I felt the ache, the tender sting, In quiet places where changes cling. I woke at night, my sheets turned cold, A mystery unraveled, still untold. I felt the throb, the unfamiliar strain, A silent turmoil, a nameless pain. I walked this path, unknown and bare, Through fleeting shame and courage rare. I faced the nights and dreams that fell, Through aches and growth, I stood well. For in this pain, a truth I’d see— The boy I was, becoming me. I graduated, Relished my academic years, Fulfilling half my dreams— No
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What is Love? What is conditional and unconditional? What are it's differences?




                What is Love?

 Love is a sense of affection. It's a kind of a feeling that every living being have. Love has not only a one emotion, it has many emotion. When we say about love,our experience of love is you feel a certain sweetness of emotion within yourself. There is not only a romantic love, which we show to our opposite gender. We love many things, we love nature, we love to see the beautiful landscape which surrounds to us, we love plants, trees and animals.

 There not only a one feeling for love. There is not only a romantic love which we all do. There are certain kinds of meanings. When we say about the romantic love that's only in a third place.



     

 Here I am talking about two types of love:- Conditional Love and Unconditional Love.

 If we talk about conditional love it's a kind of affection which comes from ego and generally focus on someone or something. Conditional relationships cause when you feel one thing about a person and show them completely different.
When we love someone conditionally , we tend to want them look,act and think in a ways that fit in our own expectations. Conditional love is love that is turned off and on. Those who are raised on conditional love never really feel love.

 Where as unconditional love, it comes from our soul. In unconditional love we consciously commit ourselves to expressing respect, kindness,and cooperation to everyone and everything in our environment. Unconditional love has a positive effect on our physical, mental and spiritual state of being, creating truth and joy and everything in our world in our greatest good.

 Conditional love is nothing but a infatuation or a sexuality. Unconditional love is the only way where the love can be. Where ever the condition comes in, the love disappears. It lives in a bondage, and a condition gives in an imprisonment. Love can only live like a vast sky. Love knows no boundaries. 

 Ending with a quote;

 There is really no such thing as a conditional love and unconditional love-there are conditions, and there is love.
                      ~ Sadhguru


                                    
                                        

















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